Spence-Chapin’s Modern Family Center Mentorship Program provides an opportunity for middle and high school youth to spend time with peers and adults who share the experience of adoption. These gatherings allow for deeper discussions about what adoption means. Our mentors - trained volunteers - are adoptees who know how to separate typical adolescent issues from adoption-related issues and are thrilled to be supporting young adoptees.
High School Mentors
Name: Catherine Adopted From: Wuhan, China Lives in: Long Island
I was born in Wuhan, China and adopted into a loving Italian and Irish family at the age of four. A few years later, my parents and I journeyed back to China and adopted my younger sister. Growing up adopted and guiding Marielle, my adoptive younger sister, through life has been a rewarding experience. In 2012, I received a B.A. from SUNY Geneseo in Communication and Mass Media. Shortly after, I attended New York Institute of Technology and graduated with an M.A. in Communication and Mass Media. While I aspire to be a broadcast journalist, I also developed an interest in interpersonal communication between adoptees and adoptive families during my undergraduate studies. I look forward to helping adoptive families experience life to the fullest from a positive perspective.
Name: Chelsea Adopted From: Columbus, Georgia Lives in: Manhattan
I am excited to begin my first year volunteering with the Modern Family Center as a mentor. I was born in Columbus, GA and was adopted at the age of 1 1/2, growing up in Decatur, GA. I studied and received my Bachelor's of Arts degree in Psychology from Georgetown University, in Washington, DC. I now live in New York City and am working as a certified Life Coach for young women in transition and part-time as a model. I also volunteer for an organization called Stand Beside Them, which offers coaching and mentoring services for veterans of the US military who are newly transitioning to civilian life. When I am not working or volunteering, I enjoy exercising, practicing yoga, cooking, writing, and hanging out with friends. I am overjoyed to share my journey with others touched by adoption at the Modern Family Center.
Name: David Adopted From: Binghamton, NY Lives in: Manhattan
I was born in Buffalo, NY and adopted in Binghamton, NY at the age of 3 months, through the New York State Department of Children's Services. I grew up near Binghamton with a younger sister who was also adopted. I have lived in Manhattan for over 20 years. I am married, with a daughter who is a college freshman. I teach English language to adult immigrants. My students are almost all from China, and they have taught me how to speak a lot of Mandarin Chinese. Also, I can play a few musical instruments. I became a mentor because I would have liked something like this when I was in high school.
Name: Doreen Adopted From: New York City Lives in: Queens
I am in my second year volunteering for the Mentoring Program. I was born and raised in New York City and currently work in the insurance industry. In my spare time I enjoy crafting/decorating, reading, writing, socializing with friends or just curling up on the couch and watching a funny or romantic movie. I decided to volunteer at Spence-Chapin after reading a newsletter outlining the requirements necessary for the mentor position and feeling that it was a good fit for me. I have always encouraged the youth around me to strive for success no matter what their circumstances are. I believe that there is an entire world out there filled with opportunities and that we can all achieve our dreams if we believe in ourselves.
Name: Jessica Adopted From: Bogota, Colombia Lives in: Manhattan
I was born in Bogota, Colombia, and adopted when I was three months old. I was raised by my parents on Long Island as an only child. I always knew about my adoption, my parents telling me from a young age that I was born in Colombia and had come here when I was a baby. I had decided early in my life that I wanted to search for my birth family and my parents were always supportive of my desire to search. This is my 8th year as a mentor and I’m excited to be back!
Name: Andrew Adopted From: Seoul, South Korea Lives in: Manhattan
I was born in Seoul, South Korea and am currently employed as a Human Resources Manager for Hilton Hotels. I have been actively looking to get more involved in volunteer opportunities, and the topic of adoption is something that I am very comfortable talking about and passionate about. I look forward to actively participating with all of my fellow mentors and to be a resource providing support for the young adults who t are struggling with their adoption identities.
Name: Kimberly Adopted From: Seoul, South Korea Lives in: Brooklyn
I was born in Seoul, South Korea and was placed with my adoptive family at 6 months through Spence-Chapin. I currently work in Manhattan as an analytics consultant and enjoy international travel, writing, trying out the latest fitness crazes, and going to the movies with my husband. This is my third year as a mentor and I enjoy being a positive role model for adoptees as well as just listening to what's on the mentees' minds. I remembered attending Spence-Chapin programs when I was young and they provided a positive outlook on adoption in my life.
Name: Sara Adopted From: South Korea Lives in: Manhattan
I am a project engineer, designer, and leadership coach. I love live music, film, street art, and am more recently fascinated by co-housing as another way to create a greater sense of community. This will be my 6th year as a mentor. I have participated in the Middle School program and am now a mentor in the High School program. I was born in South Korea, and actually had the opportunity to travel there with my younger adoptive sister in 2008. It was an amazing experience to be connected with my birth place heritage through actual places and people and experiencing tangible aspects of Korean culture. Ever since then, I have wanted to give back to Spence-Chapin and help create a safe space of relatedness and community for fellow adoptees. I look forward to seeing you in the Fall!
Name: Mee Jin Adopted From: Daegu, South Korea Lives in: Queens
I am entering my sixth year as a mentor. My first three years were with the middle school group and this is my third year with the teens. I was born in Daegu, South Korea and was adopted through Spence-Chapin when I was ten months old. I grew up in northern NJ with my parents and an older sister. Currently, I am adjusting to life as a new homeowner in Queens, where I live with my husband. I work for Fidelity Investments in public relations and in my free time I enjoy traveling and spending time with my family – especially my three nieces and nephew. I love being a mentor as I value the opportunity to be in a community with other adoptees, yet appreciate that everyone brings unique experiences and perspectives.
Middle School Mentors
Name: Lacey Adopted From: Seoul, Korea Lives in: Manhattan
I am looking forward to my second year as a mentor. I was born in Seoul, Korea, and adopted through Spence-Chapin at the age of three months. My parents say they knew I was meant to be theirs because my birthday falls on their wedding anniversary. From the moment I heard about this program, I knew I wanted to be a mentor because when I was a child growing up in a time and place where adoption was not commonplace, my parents started an organization called G.I.F.T. (Gathering International Families Together), and it meant a lot to me to meet other families who knew and understood how special it is to be adopted. I currently work as a Research Editor for All You magazine, a Time Inc. publication. I’m looking forward to the coming year, and can't wait to meet everyone!
Name: Sarah Adopted From: Seoul, South Korea Lives in: New Jersey
I am about to serve in my 6th year as a mentor in the Spence-Chapin Mentorship Program. I was born in Seoul, South Korea and adopted when I was 3 months old. I am currently an attorney at an intellectual property law firm in NYC. I enjoy spending time with my cat and jogging around Central Park. I enjoy participating in the mentorship program because it provides everyone with the opportunity to engage in thoughtful discussion about adoption.
Name: Sophia Adopted From: La Ceiba, Honduras Lives in: Queens
I am about to participate in my second year of the Middle School Mentorship Program with Spence-Chapin! I was born in La Ceiba, Honduras and when I was just 10 months old I was adopted and brought to the United States. I grew up in the Midwest with a wonderful family and eventually moved to New York to attend college. I love to swim, read, dance, play my flute, sing, and eat good food! I’m excited to be a part of this program because growing up I never had a mentor of my own. I feel that it will be a very rewarding experience for me and the mentees!
Name: Daniel Adopted from: South Korea Lives in: New Jersey
I love life, and I love supporting others in how they love life. I'm an adoptee from South Korea who currently resides in Wayne, New Jersey, and I'm grateful for all the love and opportunities my mother and father have given me. I teach people from all over the world how to have deeper, richer, and more fulfilling relationships, whether with friends, family, or even people they've just met. I'm also an AcroYoga enthusiast, a musician, and an overall fun-loving adventurous soul. Being an adoptee in my mid-twenties, it seems like I'm having some of my deepest realizations yet, so naturally, mentoring young people who share a similar experience feels like a new chapter in my life. I'm excited to connect with, support, and even learn from my mentees in whatever time we spend together.
Name: Jessi Adopted From: New York Lives in: New Jersey
This is my first year at as a mentor at Spence-Chapin. I grew up in Tenafly, New Jersey and was adopted from New York. I want to be a mentor because I know first hand how hard it can be to grow up as an adopted child. I also know that talking with someone who is older than you and is also adopted can be very insightful and help you figure yourself out. After I went into reunion with my birth parents and biological siblings, I worked with a social worker who specialized in adoption. Through this I was able to find myself and become the person I am today. I plan to further my education in this area by attending graduate school for social work and specializing in adoption.
Please contact Dana Stallard at email@example.com or 212-360-0213 if your child is interested in participating in our Mentorship program.